Let me state that this page is completely my opinion. You can reserve the right to judge Abby however
you would like to. I am using this page just to inform you of what I have learned over the time that I have known her.
I have no intention to accurately report Abby's personality, it's only what I have figured out on my own.
Many of these things might not be entirely true to what Abby's actual personality is like, it's only what she has let me find out,
or more importantly, what she wants me to think about herself.
If you would like to update my information database;
anything you think you know that I don't, you may do so here.
doug@dougmalcore.com
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A brief history
Abby was younger than I was. She was in high school when I was in college. I never
knew Abby. Granted, I was in school with her, but, her being younger, I didn't even know her
name, and we didn't go to a very big school. Anyhow, how we met...
My brother talked to Abby quite a bit. Well, on the internet one time, she started talking all this
crazy stuff. Stuff that a person of her age probably shouldn't have been saying. And myself, still
being the young and impressionble person with hormones, decided to go for it.
The first time we ever did anything, was one time when I went grocery shopping in Green Bay. I
asked Amy to go along with, and I stopped to pick up Amy, who I also didn't know that well, and then
we picked up Abby. That's really the first time we ever met. That was a pretty good time, as I
love grocery shopping, and I had two pretty good looking ladies going with me.
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The Meat of the Situation
Well, after a great time of grocery shopping, Abby and I started hanging out a bunch.
She was very cool. Very spiritual, and a great thinker. A great mind she had, and was really
easy to get along with. Loads of confidence, and a person like me definitely appreciates that.
Eventually, I broke down, and did something I shouldn't have. She said something about labels one time,
and I made a stupid comment that I shouldn't have without thinking. She asked what I would tell
people if they asked what "we were". And I said that I wouldn't have any problem telling people
that she was my girlfriend.
So that was it, things just went downhill from there. I didn't really like hanging out with her too
much mainly because she was young. It was all fine when we just knew each other, but then when I had
to go and put labels on everything, that screwed stuff up big time. We had a lot of good times as
"boyfriend/girlfriend", but it was probably something that never should have happened.
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A Few Stories
After my freshman year of college, I acquired a pretty bad reputation. People
always seemed to know me, know what I was thinking, know what I was going to do next, and
mostly, always knew what I did. I don't know why that was, but I never had many secrets.
Perhaps it's because of the website that I had, or that my brothers were nearly as well known
in school as I was, or perhaps that I had so many good friends that were still in school when
I was in college, or because of the parties that I had whenever I came home.
Regardless, a reputation like that does a lot of damage when it wants to. This one time Abby
got messed up into some weird stuff. Stuff that I wouldn't do, but she did it. Maybe because she
was young and adventurous. Anyway, her brother was terribly overprotective of her. Especially when
he knew one of my best friends (Stacy) and Stacy always knew everything about me. Anyhow, Abby gets
involved in this weird thing, and I got blamed for it. He was total prick to me about it too. You
know how mellow I am about everything. Well he approaches me this time wanting to kick my ass or something,
and I'm just sort of laughing about it all. Laughing about what a hardass he was to me, laughing because
how hypocritcal it is for him to be bitching at me for what I did, when this guy was a budding alcoholic
and was still in high school. Regardless, that wasn't cool.
I watched all three Star Wars episodes with Abby. Probably the best thing we've ever done
together. You see, she's never seen any of the Star Wars, and I'm a huge fan. So I rent
all the episodes, and we watched them all in like one day, then we went and saw Episode
1 together.
I never felt comfortable around Abby when we were dating. Mostly because she was younger, but also that
I didn't know her well at all. So I just sort of let things go, and never put any effort into anything.
I was ultra mellow at that point in my life. More mellow than I ever was. I didn't care about anything.
When oppurtunities came up for Abby and myself to be intimate, I put no effort into it whatsoever. I don't
think I was attracted to her physically at all, which is ironic because that's why I got to know her
in the beginning. So I was sending some big time mixed signals.
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The Good Stuff
Abby was never afraid of anything.
All Abby ever cared about was a good time, which is cool as hell
One of the most positive people I've ever met
A great thinker. Probably the best mind of anyone that I've ever dated.
Extremely easy to get along with
Very smart. By far the most intelligent person that I've known, by my standards.
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Life as we know it, and why things go as they do...
Obviously, I don't talk to Abby anymore. I'm sure it's because I never put
any effort into anything. Well, I call her this one time after not talking to her for a
week or so. Her mom tells me that she isn't at home. Well, about 20 minutes later she
calls and said we shouldn't hang out anymore. So that was it with her. That was the first
time I was ever dumped in my life. A good learning experience if you ask me. I assume that
had to happen sometime.
For some reason, we got into this crazy fight after it was all said and done. I don't know what
happened, but it was sure fun sending emails to each other bitching about how terrible we both
were. Even my friends wanted to get involved. Abby is so ultra confident that it was nearly
impossible to break her down. But it sure was good times. I'm sure she felt the same.
I've spoken to Abby on a number of occasions after it was all said and done. She is as cool now
as she ever was. I totally forgot about those great bitching emails until I started writing this page.
That's how insignificant everything always was. She is totally easy to get along with though. I'm
pretty sure that she is a runner at UWGB with my brother's girlfriend now. At least, that's what my
brother tells me.
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© Doug Malcore 2002
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